163. Loving Lightly

If you’ve ever answered “fine” when you weren’t really fine, this episode is for you. Saying “fine” may feel safe in the moment, but it trains your brain to ignore your desires, feelings, and needs, leaving you disconnected from yourself, burnt out, and frustrated.In this episode ...  Show more

Does receiving feedback make you spiral into shame, anxiety, or self-doubt? In this Coaching Hotline episode, I answer a listener who struggles to separate her self-worth from professional critique. You'll hear why those intense feelings are actually avoided emotions showing up, ...  Show more

hello girls and boys. There are a lot of ways that love and attachment can get confusing. Someone may think one person is the love of their life, but really they are just extremely attached to them... but how do you know? Today we go through signs of an unhealthy attachment, the ...  Show more

If you’ve ever held out for someone’s potential because you could feel how good they are deep down… this episode is for you.We’ll talk about:Why emotionally unavailable men can still feel magneticHow to stop mistaking intensity for loveMoving from shrinking into high standards fo ...  Show more

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I give you some real life lessons from one anxiously attached girl, to another.00:00 intro02:33 everybody is your mirror11:54 mastering cognitive reframing18:22 stop concerning yourself with avoidant people25:58 become your own safe space29:16 RI ...  Show more

Hi my loves 🦋 Welcome to another episode of the Soulful Sunday Reset! Today we explore my 4 "key truths" about moving into a secure attachment style. I discuss why you don't have to work so hard for love, how to seek securely attached partners, and the power of accepting that re ...  Show more