165. Saying No

Making friends as an adult can feel intimidating, especially when it seems like your upbringing didn't give you the skills to navigate social connections. In this Coaching Hotline episode, I answer two listener questions about friendships and social interactions. I explore why it ...  Show more

This week, I break down the three foundational principles that will allow you to coach yourself effectively, no matter where you are on your thought work journey. If you’re new to the podcast, this is an essential episode to ground you in the basics of cognitive change. If you’ve ...  Show more

There’s a lot of information out there about setting healthy boundaries. But sometimes it’s difficult to get to the first step–saying no. If you’re a people-pleaser or you have a fear of missing out, saying no is difficult. Whether your friends invite you to do something or your ...  Show more

It can be hard to say no to yourself, especially when you really want something. Saying no may feel like a punishment or you may feel deprived. So when you know that saying no is what's best for you, how do you do it?

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Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3223: Julie Freidell's journey from being a perpetual people pleaser to someone who prioritizes her own well-being is a com ...  Show more

Do you hate saying ‘no’ to yourself? I used to. When I said ‘no, you can’t do that’, or ‘you can’t eat that’…I felt deprived. I felt like I was experiencing a terrible injustice. What do you mean I can’t have that? That’s not fair! I shouldn’t have to tell myself ‘no’. I don’t wa ...  Show more