165. Saying No

Does receiving feedback make you feel instantly defensive, embarrassed, or like you’ve done something terribly wrong?In this Coaching Hotline episode, I answer two listener questions about how to handle criticism at work and how to know when you’ve coached yourself “correctly.” Y ...  Show more

What if one of the most important financial decisions you ever make isn’t about investing, saving, or budgeting... but about who you choose as your partner?In this episode, I’m joined by Vivian Tu, also known as Your Rich BFF, 2x New York Times bestselling author, and host of the ...  Show more

There’s a lot of information out there about setting healthy boundaries. But sometimes it’s difficult to get to the first step–saying no. If you’re a people-pleaser or you have a fear of missing out, saying no is difficult. Whether your friends invite you to do something or your ...  Show more

It can be hard to say no to yourself, especially when you really want something. Saying no may feel like a punishment or you may feel deprived. So when you know that saying no is what's best for you, how do you do it?

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Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3223: Julie Freidell's journey from being a perpetual people pleaser to someone who prioritizes her own well-being is a com ...  Show more

Do you hate saying ‘no’ to yourself? I used to. When I said ‘no, you can’t do that’, or ‘you can’t eat that’…I felt deprived. I felt like I was experiencing a terrible injustice. What do you mean I can’t have that? That’s not fair! I shouldn’t have to tell myself ‘no’. I don’t wa ...  Show more