Is The Grass Greener On The Other Side?

Are you giving someone all the benefits of a relationship while they still refuse to commit?In this episode, I explain why overgiving to an avoidant or emotionally unavailable person can keep you stuck in a situationship instead of moving toward a real relationship.Get coaching!D ...  Show more

Do you want your avoidant to be afraid to lose you, chase you and put in the effort they used to avoid giving?In this episode I explain the psychological shift that makes avoidants stop pulling away and start leaning back in instead.Get coachingDownload Silenzio App: iPhone OR An ...  Show more

Do you ever feel like the life you’re living isn’t good enough? As humans, we’re constantly striving for the next best thing. We think, “if only I had a better job, lived in a different city, had a better partner,” etc. In this episode, Jon and Alex talk about why th ...

32 | The grass isn't always greener on the other side; it's green where you water it. It's so easy to get caught up in comparison, wondering "what if," and questioning whether or not we're doing the right thing in life. No matter the situation, it's important to remember to water ...  Show more

Break up or stay together? Who hasn't wondered the same, during a seriously difficult time in their relationship? Or, entertained an even bigger question: Should you try to save a relationship? How hard should you work? Especially a relationship that has been feeling really hard ...  Show more

When you're in any type of difficult or emotionally abusive relationship, a violation of your relationship boundaries has probably already taken place. After all, you didn't sign up to feel like crap all the time or be unhappy. So is it okay to seek someone outside the relationsh ...  Show more