Is The Grass Greener On The Other Side?

A lot of breakup advice about no contact is either oversimplified or flat-out wrong.In this episode, I talk about why no contact is not right for every situation, why "respond so you don't look angry" is terrible advice, and the exceptions to no contact that most people don't kno ...  Show more

If they were consistent and then pulled away, don't assume it means you ruined it or they don't care.In this video, I break down the "Silence Loop" (the emotions that keep people from reaching out) and what to do so you don't make things worse.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: ...  Show more

Do you ever feel like the life you’re living isn’t good enough? As humans, we’re constantly striving for the next best thing. We think, “if only I had a better job, lived in a different city, had a better partner,” etc. In this episode, Jon and Alex talk about why th ...

32 | The grass isn't always greener on the other side; it's green where you water it. It's so easy to get caught up in comparison, wondering "what if," and questioning whether or not we're doing the right thing in life. No matter the situation, it's important to remember to water ...  Show more

Break up or stay together? Who hasn't wondered the same, during a seriously difficult time in their relationship? Or, entertained an even bigger question: Should you try to save a relationship? How hard should you work? Especially a relationship that has been feeling really hard ...  Show more

When you're in any type of difficult or emotionally abusive relationship, a violation of your relationship boundaries has probably already taken place. After all, you didn't sign up to feel like crap all the time or be unhappy. So is it okay to seek someone outside the relationsh ...  Show more