Should You Trick Your Ex Into Contacting You?

Attention is not the same thing as intention. Social media breadcrumbs can keep you emotionally stuck if you confuse attention with real investment.In this episode, I explain why an ex may keep watching, liking or reacting to your social media after a breakup - while still not re ...  Show more

If you've ever called out an avoidant for pulling away, being distant or sending mixed signals, you may have accidentally pushed them further away.In this episode I explain why calling out an avoidant usually backfires and what to do instead if you want to stop the push-pull cycl ...  Show more

A lot of women ask me whether I think it’s a good idea to be friends with an ex. My answer is, it depends on your motive. In today’s LOVE Life, we’ll take a look at your reasons behind wanting to hold on to a former flame, and how it could impact your future relationship with the ...  Show more

Ever feel like your ex is living rent-free in your head, even though the relationship is so over? Whether it’s been weeks, months, or (gulp) years since your breakup, if you’re wondering “Why do I keep thinking about my ex?” and you’re still caught in a loop of thoughts, memories ...  Show more

How many hours, days, months – dare I say it – years have you wasted trying to make things work out with the wrong men? How much precious time in this beautiful life has been squandered pining over an ex? Life is short and, sadly, that is time you can never get back. ...

You broke up with him…and broke his heart. But time has passed, and now he wants to try to be friends. You miss hanging out and having a laugh with him, so what’s the harm? After all, you’re totally over those romantic feelings. The problem is, he isn’t. Is this “frie ...