Quality Queen Control

You can have insane chemistry with someone who is TERRIBLE at relationships. I said what I said. We keep asking "Do we like each other?" when we should be asking "Can this person actually BE in a relationship?"Liking each other is easy. Being in a relationship is a SKILL. And mos ...  عرض المزيد

You are not in love with him. You are in love with who you think he COULD be.In 2 years. After he heals. After he gets money. After he finally leaves that situation. After he finally chooses you fully.Girl, that's not love. That's a project. And you are not Bob the Builder.In thi ...  عرض المزيد

Men set the tone in relationships. Period.And before you get triggered setting the tone is not about control. It's about responsibility.A man sets the tone for how safe you feel to be soft. How safe you feel to be honest. How safe you feel to not over-explain, not defend your cha ...  عرض المزيد

Do you write 3 paragraphs when "no" would be enough?Do you feel guilty for hours after setting one small boundary?You don't have a communication problem. You have a trauma response called over-explaining. And in this episode, I'm breaking down exactly where it comes from and how ...  عرض المزيد

She smiles to your face and competes behind your back. And you felt it, didn't you?That friend who loves you when you're struggling, but gets weird when you're winning. Who copies your business, your style, your manners - but would never admit she watches your every move.In this ...  عرض المزيد