Quality Queen Control

From poverty in Cape Verde to crowned Miss New York USA - and now finding real love? Andreia Gibau's story is INSANE.In this girls girl episode, we keke'd about everything real. Andreia opens up about being born in Praia, Cape Verde, immigrating to the US at 7 years old and growi ...  Afficher plus

I tried the soft life and ended up broke, anxious, and waiting on an allowance to buy a $7.62 coffee. That's not soft. That's stuck.In this episode, I'm sharing the 5 reasons having options and your own identity is the real soft life - and why the TikTok version is keeping you vu ...  Afficher plus

Soft life isn't laziness it's options. But softness without literacy is vulnerability.In this sincere episode, I break down why we misunderstood soft life, and the 3 literacies you need to make your softness safe: financial, emotional, and boundaries.Not doing less. Building opti ...  Afficher plus

You can have insane chemistry with someone who is TERRIBLE at relationships. I said what I said. We keep asking "Do we like each other?" when we should be asking "Can this person actually BE in a relationship?"Liking each other is easy. Being in a relationship is a SKILL. And mos ...  Afficher plus

You are not in love with him. You are in love with who you think he COULD be.In 2 years. After he heals. After he gets money. After he finally leaves that situation. After he finally chooses you fully.Girl, that's not love. That's a project. And you are not Bob the Builder.In thi ...  Afficher plus