The Art of Love With Lucia

There's one emotion that can change the way your ex sees the breakup, and make them question whether walking away was a mistake.IIn this episode, I explain how this emotion develops in an avoidant and what to look for once they reach out to you.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: ...  Show more

If your avoidant ex seemed completely done, but you're wondering whether they could change their mind, this video will help you understand what's happening beneath the surface.I explain the psychology behind why avoidant exes come back, after they seemed so certain the relationsh ...  Show more

If you're in no contact with an avoidant ex, you may think they want distance and don't care what you're doing, But what an avoidant says they want and what they may secretly want can be very different. In this episode, I explain what may be happening beneath the silence, and why ...  Show more

Your ex may seem completely certain they want to stay broken up - but what they feel today isn’t necessarily what they’ll feel forever.In this episode, I explain why an ex may defend the breakup even when feelings are still there, how relief can be mistaken for certainty, and why ...  Show more

How do you make an avoidant feel so safe that they finally let you in and don't pull away?In this episode, I reveal the 3 phrases that create the emotional safety an avoidant needs to stay connected and move a relationship forward.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR And ...  Show more