Most people think that dealing with an avoidant means explaining, checking in or trying to say things the "right way". That usually pushes them further away.In this episode, ex back coach Lucia walks you through taboo ways people unintentionally make avoidants miss them - by doin ...Show more
Blocking An Avoidant Is The Worst Mistake You Could Make
Blocking an avoidant ex feels powerful - but it often does the opposite of what you want.Ex back strategist Lucia explains why blocking can quietly backfire with avoidant attachment, what it does to their nervous system and the new rule you need to understand before you decide wh ...Show more
Why Rushing Always Fails With Avoidants
When getting back with an ex, people usually say they're going to "take it slow", but rarely do. Dating expert Lucia explains why pace is the deciding factor, especially with an avoidant ex and why talking doesn't actually move things forward.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: i ...Show more
Why Being Patient With An Avoidant Backfires
Being patient with an avoidant doesn't save the connection - it often kills attraction.Dating expert Lucia explains why attraction fades when you're waiting, being understanding, and "not putting pressure on it". If you've been trying to stay calm and do the right thing while not ...Show more
What Really Happens When You Stop Chasing Your Ex
When you've been dumped, the urge to chase can feel overwhelming, especially if you still want your ex back.Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what actually changes when you stop chasing your ex, and why pulling back often shifts the dynamic in ways chasing never can.Get c ...Show more