You Make Sense

You Make Sense

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The Truth About Boundaries: Why They're Hard and How to Hold Them

She explores the difference between embodied boundaries and self-protective boundaries, which form as a result of unmet needs and misattunement in childhood. You’ll learn how to reconnect with your adult self, identify the protective parts that might be informing the way you set ...  Show more

The Secret to Actually Loving Yourself: Falling in Love with Your Younger Parts

You’ll learn about the importance of consistency in reparenting your parts, why this process is about relationship-building, and how to find love for the protective parts of you that are often responsible for challenging behaviors or patterns. When you do this work, without havin ...  Show more

The Path to Authentic Leadership Through Parts Work

Drawing on parts work and nervous system science, she explains how striving, control, burnout, micromanaging, and difficulty slowing down are often signs that old survival strategies are running the show. This episode will give you a tangible path toward embodied leadership, so t ...  Show more

Building Real Intimacy and Deeper Connection in a Romantic Relationship

She breaks down the core elements of intimacy, including vulnerability, presence, play, touch, and verbal connection, and shows how each one can become inhibited when childhood environments did not allow those needs to be expressed safely. This episode offers a compassionate, pra ...  Show more

Why We Feel the Need to Control and How to Actually Let Go

Sarah explains how experiences of chaos, misattunement, and trauma leave the nervous system feeling unsafe, and how control becomes a brilliant survival strategy. She delves into the more subtle versions of control that go unnoticed because they look “responsible” on the surfa ...

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