Do You Make Love the Prerequisite for Getting...

Birthdays hold both meaning and power. They are a profound spiritual event. Today, I am going to share with you this little-known aspect of birthdays. 

Let’s start this discussion with two truths.👉 The first truth is: Just because someone is functional, doesn’t mean that they are using healthy strategies to be functional. 👉 The second truth is: Many people remain functional despite being really bad off. Even potentially worse ...  Show more

Do you desperately want to be in a relationship?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why feeling as if you need to have someone in your life is a sympton of a bigger issue and what to do about it so that you choose someone out of desire rather than desperation. ...

Why do you want a lover or a romantic partner?  Why do you drive a certain car or dress a certain way?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia believes the reason we do almost everything is to feel "this" way.  Find out what "this" is, in this philosophical podcast.

Have you ever heard of object-of-desire based arousal? It's a product of socialization that explains why we find it SO hard to feel turned on or sexy if someone isn't actively desiring us. In this episode, I explain this concept and give you a sneak peek of the rest of chapter 7 ...  Show more

So your partner is great… but you want them to bring the heat, and don’t know how to ask for it. Now what? On today’s episode, I answer calls about how to ask for exactly what you want, or conversely, don’t want. I also give advice about how to achieve orgasm without relying too ...  Show more