40. Reactivity Vs. Resilience

Some endings are hard because the person is still alive, but the relationship you had with them is gone. This week, I answer a Coaching Hotline question from a listener who is grieving a friendship that has faded and struggling to find acceptance. I talk about why grief cannot be ...  Show more

Have you ever been so angry that you wanted to say something immediately, but you also knew you were probably not in the clearest state of mind? In this episode, I walk you through a real moment from my own life where I was furious, activated, and very tempted to send an angry em ...  Show more

Do you ever feel responsible for the feelings of others? Do you overgive and overfunction? Do you suffer from chronic indecision? If any of those things resonate, today's episode is for you. I am going to share with you five signs that your emotional boundaries need help.

Do you notice micro changes in people's facial expressions and ask yourself, "What did I do wrong?"

Are you able to sit with someone in pain without trying to fix them?

Are you so emotionally attuned to everything and everyone that y ...

When it comes to building healthy relationships, all roads lead back to boundaries. In this week's episode, I'm offering 5 signs that you might need better boundaries. The truth is, most people have poor boundaries - whether that looks like saying yes when you really ...

Do you feel overly sensitive? Are you panicked one minute and tapped out the next? You may be living outside your window of tolerance.Read the transcript on Quick and Dirty Tips.Check out all the Quick and Dirty Tips shows.Subscribe to the newsletter for more psychology tips.Join ...  Show more